I don’t like spiders. They scare me shitless. I can’t even look at one in a magazine or on my computer. I have to quickly turn the page or scroll past at light speed. I’m not sure why as I know they can’t move off of the media and jump out and bite my ass. Tell that to my ass though.
I’ve had my share of spider horror stories although I haven’t been bitten. No doubt I have come close as I’ve wandered around in the garden or bushland at times but what I don’t know won’t hurt me. It’s the in-your-face stuff that makes my hair stand on end and my brain melt into my spinal cord.
My first experience was the result of a good deed gone wrong and probably why I never offered to vacuum my adolescent room ever again. My mother housed the crusty old cleaner in a box, in a cupboard and out of the light – an obvious favourite haunt of the eight-legged horror which I felt rather than saw as I put my bare foot on an enormous huntsman that continued to wriggle its way to freedom from under my foot and between my toes. I doubt very much my feet hit the floor for the rest of the evening and I spent the night at my friend’s house. I tend to wear foot covering everywhere these days except in the shower.
I managed to avoid any chance encounters until a night on the town with my future husband turned into a nightmare as I walked through a group of trees near our destination and straight into the biggest spider web I never saw. I’m sure I looked a picture of grace and dignity as I danced around like a lunatic trying to get the sticky stuff off me but when my date walked up to me and flicked a huge spider off my head and onto the ground I lost it completely. He still talks about my screaming sprint past the jazz club windows while the patrons cheered me on.
Not long after that my son and I were downstairs sweeping the entrance when we spotted another large huntsman near the roof. Commonsense and past experience prevailed and I left it alone but not my son – he decided to poke it with his broom which knocked it onto the floor and straight up his shorts. I am ashamed to say that I laughed so hard I cried – until the wretched thing ran down his prancing legs and straight up mine.
My last and most recent experience with a spider once again involved my son. We were putting out the garbage and spotted the largest red back spider we’d ever seen in a web at eye-level on the carport. We both got close enough to look at the red stripe running down its back when it moved towards us and the sensor light went out at the same time. We both nearly knocked each other out in the dark as we bravely scrambled to get away from it. Needless to say we both lived to tell the tale and the spider was dispatched with haste.
I see a few huntsman spiders here and there now and again but I leave them alone. I figure if I don’t bother them then they won’t bother me but if I find one in the shower with me then all bets are off.